Noticeable Signs of Distress
Noticeable Signs of Distress:
- Changes in mood or behavior
- Changes in academic performance and/or learning difficulties
- Physical symptoms
- Frequent absenteeism
- Changes in personal relationships
- Risky or self-destructive behavior
- Drug and/or alcohol abuse
- References to suicide
- Indecisiveness
- Themes of: morbidity, death, depression, hostility, etc.
When to Refer:
- A student presents a problem that is outside your range of expertise.
- The student is reluctant to talk about the specifics of a problem.
- Time is limited due to other responsibilities.
- Your intuition says: “something is not quite right here…”
How to Make a Referral:
- It’s okay to be afraid to reach out, but don’t let that stop you from doing so.
- Approach the person with concern, caring and compassion.
- Say what you feel in a clear and respectful manner. Be careful not to come across as judgmental or superior.
- Enlist help and support from others close to the person
- Focus on concrete behavior(s); cite specific examples of behaviors you see as troublesome.
- Be ready to offer referral sources.
- Don’t be surprised if reaction is denial, anger, or laughter.
- Don’t blame yourself if the students’ behaviors remain the same or worsen.
Important Points to Remember:
- Counseling services has intake appointments on a walk-in basis Monday-Friday (9:00am-4:00pm)
- Students in acute distress should be walked over at any time during business hours
- A counselor is always accessible through the security office (X9300) for emergencies after hours.
- Feel free to consult with our staff about your concerns before you refer a student to our services.